The Question. . .That is the question. . why ask it in the first place

From time in memorial Men for some reason took the upper hand in asking that FOUR WORD QUESTION...Will you marry me. (IF ANYONE OUT THERE CAN TELL ME WHY MEN TOOK THE UPPER HAND IN ASKING THAT QUESTION DO REPLY. . I am truly interested). How/which/why when as in the year....too (history behind it). We can automatically assume it was the Hunter and gather syndrome. Men the stronger of the Sexes, the decider. No idea as to why myself!

But boy do I get fed up as the years move on and most recently I have read a lot of men complaining as to how they had been suckered into marriage. COMPLAIN. . COMPLAIN.. COMPLAIN.. (funny usually to woman only. ..is it a new chat up line). My question is why did you ask the question in the first place. . .were you that naive, stupid, or just desperate. Whether you are in a long term relationship(no getting married). Or Marriage even. It takes working at, you do when you start dating. Why does one of the partners or even both think it stops when you start to live together in cohabiting or marriage? That is the question.

TODAY. . I feel men do all they can to avoid (FULL) commitment to a relationship let alone ask that question will you marry me. So there is no reason for any man on earth to feel the need of obligation to their partner to ask that very question.

Men who really love their loved one, who really want to be with them for the rest of their life and feel they could never see themselves with any one else ever. Will only commit and ask that question within the first three to five years of being together. (Sorry for the directness).

Forget it if you ever just want to be married living in hope he will ask...

I say ever want to be married as I feel some people just want to be married. Not REALLY LOVE THEIR LOVED ONE, WHO REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH THEM FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE AND FEEL THEY COULD NEVER EVER SEE THEMSELVES WITH ANYONE ELSE.

SO. . .Those OF YOU who don't feel that way DO NOT ASK THAT QUESTION. . After all it is you who drive everyone else mad with your complaining.

Ohhhh and if it is the money and possessions you feel hard done by in divorce SPEND THAT MONEY ON A SOLICITOR AND GET THAT PRE NUP for god sake. .

IF NOT SHUT THE -UCK UP.